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What first drew you to your spouse, or to the opposite gender in general? Was it a smile, a sense of humor, a quiet confidence, or an inner beauty that lit up the room? That spark - that quality that makes someone unforgettable - is what I call captivation.
Men captivate through strength, confidence, and identity. Not strength as in control, but strength in presence—the kind that makes a woman feel safe and admired. Humor, confidence, and character are magnetic when they come from a man who knows who he is in Christ.
Women captivate through radiance, respect, and confidence in their femininity. When a woman walks in her God-given design—not trying to compete, but to complement—her presence brings life, warmth, and beauty.
Captivation isn’t about trying harder or performing; it’s about living out the design God already placed inside you. When we rest in that truth, attraction becomes less about appearance and more about God’s glory shining through us.
✨ Takeaway Question: How can you embrace your God-given design today in a way that draws others closer instead of pushing them away?
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